According to some linguistic researches, saying "I love you" in one’s first language is more difficult than saying it in one’s second or third language. Or maybe I should say: saying "I love you" in one’s first language is the ever hardest thing to do. Why? Because when we say something in our first language, our brain actually assigns the meaning of this message firmly to our language. While using another language, the meaning of the message is less serious and the meaning could be blurred or become rhetoric by using that language.

See what I mean now? Doesn’t matter, just try to say "I love u" in your mother language to someone and say it again in your second or third language to that someone again. And you would find the difference between the time that cost you to speak out the words. See? The second **languaged “I love you” is quicker than the first languaged one. Because it doesn’t stimulate any feeling or it doesn’t stimulate as much as the other one does (in your brain) when you say it in your second language. In other words, it doesn’t mean a thing.

So next time when you hear your lover saying "I love you", make sure they are saying it in their first language.~~~ haha alelluya~~!!

**: I just created the word "languaged" ----it’s a verb for language. Meaning using the language to say something….sorry guys…