真得很感謝大家對我的blog的支持~已經有好一段時間想要寫這篇日記來説聲謝謝了~

 

每次我在這裡寫一些莫名奇妙的東西的時候，都很幸運有我的好友來看~給我advice & comment..你們教了我很多東西，也讓我感覺到我的改變~you guys are the witnesses of my life~~

 

你們的留言然我感到雖然我們離得很遠，但是大家還是沒有變~~~

 

真得很高興有你們這幫死黨阿

今天，我的好友同我讲，佢同佢多年的男友分手了， 我好清楚記得佢講的一句説話：佢（男友）真係好愛我嘎，不過佢嘅愛會令我窒息

 

呢句説話令我覺得：有時候，你淨係話你愛一個人係唔夠嘎，而重要的係你點去愛佢，你識唔識去愛佢....

 

relationship係需要人去build 嘎，we can never take it for granted.....如過你話你愛一個人，但係唔去關心佢，而反而忽略佢，甘請你不要在日後怪佢的變心，因爲你地之間嘅relation 已經係你日漸冷漠或不適儅的行爲中變淡...

 

同樣的道理可以apply 係家人的關係中，有時候父母不是不愛他們的子女，只是他們不知道怎麽去愛，不知道怎麽才是適當的愛的方法...(請不要誤會，我的媽媽超懂得怎麽去愛我~~...)

 

所以，我覺得，無論咩愛，你都要知道點樣去愛，而不是淨係得個愛字 ~~ 加油阿~~大家~~~！！！

 

sometimes u gonna love less, love smart.......

 

n be protetive for urself..

 

zidi...by this i mean sometimes u have to love other ppl less in case they dont love u in the same way n let u down..its a way to protect urself.......

 

xxx...

here's a tip for shopping...

 

if u see something in the window you like, buy it now....cuz if u cant make up ur mind and think u will come back later, it will end up with either u wont come back( which is fine cuz it only means u dont really like it) or the thing that u wanna buy is not there anymore...

 

so...what i wanna say is : love is like shopping sometimes..really similar...

 

if u love someone, go n get them...cuz if u leave it and come back later, they probably wont be there for u anymore.......so if it does happen, dont sip sip n cry cry....get over it....cuz no one will have sympathy for u, at least i wont......

 

 

 

如果我大咗肚，我一定會頂住個肚去clubbing...!!因爲：

 

1. 我想知道嗰嗰“食蕉“哥哥會唔會因爲bb唔夠秤（好明顯個bb唔夠18嵗）而唔俾我入去？T.T....

 

2 個bb幾個月大就識去clubbing,聼起來幾得意~~到時大個仲可以同人地話：我clubbing嘅時候你都唔知係邊啊！！^.^!!

 

前排冇端端唔知點解，cancel咗自己個blog....今日，見到friendsi D blog, 又有衝動做返~

 

anyway, it's a gd way to espress myself n especially to my friendsies......

 

hey..friendsi....sometimes i feel so empty inside...i think i wanna do something...do something that i really like...but is it worth to give up all the things that i have and to start all over again？ or can i just ignore all the effort that i have been puttin in in the current situation cuz they r sunk cost anyway, i cant possibily reverse them.....so any decision that i make in the future will be in no relevant to the previous ones?......

 

what i need is the courage to decide i think....

 

hey...judy...i explicitly seek for ur advice....